What do narcissists crave?

By Veronica Welles, posted to Quora. Narcissists generate a monthly load of toxic pus in the form of uncontrollable negative feelings. This load keeps building up and building up over the course of the month until they reach a stage akin to having to go to the toilet. They need to relieve themselves of it. … Continue reading What do narcissists crave?

The #1 sign of a covert narcissist.

Post written by: Veronica Welles, Quora In my experience, there is only one sign I always look for to discern a covert narcissist. The other red flags will pick up narcissists, but they pick up the overts or malignants. But there is one thing, yes one thing, that is simultaneously so subtle that it makes … Continue reading The #1 sign of a covert narcissist.

The logical and thoughtful mask of the narcissist.

Written by Veronica Welles on Quora. Yes they can. If you make them sit through the logic and reasoning part of the IQ tests, their score will not show any noticeable outliers. In other words, they score the same as you and I. Of course, the higher functioning the narcissist, the higher their logic and reasoning … Continue reading The logical and thoughtful mask of the narcissist.

Warning signs of being gaslighted by a narcissist.

Post by Veronica Welles, Quora. Contradictions their words contradict yours their version of truth contradicts yours their memory of the event contradicts yours (altering history) their words contradict their actions their words contradict their words their actions contradict their actions their understanding contradicts their knowledge you are always wrong, they are always right they are … Continue reading Warning signs of being gaslighted by a narcissist.

Why do narcissists manipulate?

Posted to Quora: Bassel Chibani. The art of manipulation is not about making people do what you want them to do but rather getting them to want to do what you want them to do. The Art of War by Sun Tzu Our Human nature to believe whom we love. Manipulation is a long game, narcissists do … Continue reading Why do narcissists manipulate?

The poor misunderstood narcissist just wants sympathy.

Does anyone care how hard it is to live with NPD or do you really just see us as animals because you function from a point of lack of understanding? Posted by Stephen Underwood, Quora. This is exactly the type of question a narcissist would ask. Totally self-serving and all about them. Lack of understanding? … Continue reading The poor misunderstood narcissist just wants sympathy.

Why do narcissists discard their partners?

From a post by Brian Bryant, Quora. Narcissists discard for many reasons, but generally, in the end, it is to maintain an illusory control over the target.  A narcissist knows they are pathological liars, and purposefully rebellious against the rules (including people’s boundaries, and sense of self). Therefore, abandonment & betrayal are frequently at the … Continue reading Why do narcissists discard their partners?