The poor misunderstood narcissist just wants sympathy.

Does anyone care how hard it is to live with NPD or do you really just see us as animals because you function from a point of lack of understanding? Posted by Stephen Underwood, Quora. This is exactly the type of question a narcissist would ask. Totally self-serving and all about them. Lack of understanding? … Continue reading The poor misunderstood narcissist just wants sympathy.

Why do narcissists discard their partners?

From a post by Brian Bryant, Quora. Narcissists discard for many reasons, but generally, in the end, it is to maintain an illusory control over the target.  A narcissist knows they are pathological liars, and purposefully rebellious against the rules (including people’s boundaries, and sense of self). Therefore, abandonment & betrayal are frequently at the … Continue reading Why do narcissists discard their partners?

No love. No emotions. Just nothing.

Written by: After Narcissistic Abuse - There is Light, Life & Love Narcissists switch their fake emotions, empathy, love, care, respect, friendship, off and on in like a light switch. BUT in reality they are perpetually in that 'off' position because they are nothing but an empty shell devoid of life! I could write out … Continue reading No love. No emotions. Just nothing.

GASLIGHTING: Examples, What it does to you, and How to overcome its devastating effects.

By: Kristen Snowden “YOU’RE NOT GOING OUT OF YOUR MIND. YOU’RE SLOWLY AND SYSTEMATICALLY BEING DRIVEN OUT OF YOUR MIND.” — Inspector Brian Cameron, Gaslight, 1944 Understanding what Gaslighting is, how it may infiltrate your life, and how to fully counter it is imperative to your own healing and growth process, along with your relationship’s growth. … Continue reading GASLIGHTING: Examples, What it does to you, and How to overcome its devastating effects.

How does the mind of a narcissist work?

Here are some helpful articles which capture the essence of this intense and complex insanity. The Blind Maze and the Double Bind of the Narcissistically Abusive System By Richard Grannon https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCiIh5l_F64 — The Discontinuous Narcissist (Narcissism and Dissociation) By Sam Vaknin “"But you hate kiwi!" - protests my girl - "How can anyone detest kiwi … Continue reading How does the mind of a narcissist work?

TIPS ON HOW TO FAST TRACK HEALING YOUR BRAIN AND YOUR LIFE.

By Corinna Kennedy, from the Question: How did you get closure and find peace after the relationship with your ex with NPD ended? I went strictly no contact, but my lingering anger is from not having a voice to confront him about his covert abuse (for my sake, not his). My closure is knowing the why … Continue reading TIPS ON HOW TO FAST TRACK HEALING YOUR BRAIN AND YOUR LIFE.

Do we have to forgive our abuser?

I’m not sure if forgiveness is the healthiest option in some cases, or at least at some stages in our recovery. I’ve had to forgive some pretty egregious behaviors in my life for many reasons, like peace of mind and having to be able to interact with the person again. But the experience with my … Continue reading Do we have to forgive our abuser?