Narcissists follow scripts. By Veronica Welles, posted to Quora. You are not who you truly are, you are just a character in their script (either an extra or a supporting role). They are not who they truly are, they are just a character in their own script (always the lead character). The whole world is … Continue reading Nothing is real. Nothing. Not you. Not them.
Written by: After Narcissistic Abuse - There is Light, Life & Love Narcissists switch their fake emotions, empathy, love, care, respect, friendship, off and on in like a light switch. BUT in reality they are perpetually in that 'off' position because they are nothing but an empty shell devoid of life! I could write out … Continue reading No love. No emotions. Just nothing.
By: Kristen Snowden “YOU’RE NOT GOING OUT OF YOUR MIND. YOU’RE SLOWLY AND SYSTEMATICALLY BEING DRIVEN OUT OF YOUR MIND.” — Inspector Brian Cameron, Gaslight, 1944 Understanding what Gaslighting is, how it may infiltrate your life, and how to fully counter it is imperative to your own healing and growth process, along with your relationship’s growth. … Continue reading GASLIGHTING: Examples, What it does to you, and How to overcome its devastating effects.
BY A CONSCIOUS RETHINK. Have you ever encountered a narcissist before? Been a victim of one? Then you will want to read this. All of it. Have you been lucky enough to have never had to deal with a narcissist at any point in your life? You’ll still want to read this. All of it. Narcissists are masters … Continue reading This should be a public service announcement: The Language Narcissists Use To Manipulate And Traumatize Their Victims
Here are some helpful articles which capture the essence of this intense and complex insanity. The Blind Maze and the Double Bind of the Narcissistically Abusive System By Richard Grannon https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCiIh5l_F64 — The Discontinuous Narcissist (Narcissism and Dissociation) By Sam Vaknin “"But you hate kiwi!" - protests my girl - "How can anyone detest kiwi … Continue reading How does the mind of a narcissist work?
By Corinna Kennedy, from the Question: How did you get closure and find peace after the relationship with your ex with NPD ended? I went strictly no contact, but my lingering anger is from not having a voice to confront him about his covert abuse (for my sake, not his). My closure is knowing the why … Continue reading TIPS ON HOW TO FAST TRACK HEALING YOUR BRAIN AND YOUR LIFE.
I’m not sure if forgiveness is the healthiest option in some cases, or at least at some stages in our recovery. I’ve had to forgive some pretty egregious behaviors in my life for many reasons, like peace of mind and having to be able to interact with the person again. But the experience with my … Continue reading Do we have to forgive our abuser?